Our Halloween

Our Rare Picture Together

Happy Halloween!

Our Bed Head :)

Our Little Emergency

Leslie had a 102 degree fever when I picked her up from daycare Wednesday, so we went straight to Dr. Edwards' office. By the time we got there her fever was 104.6 and she couldn't lift her arm she was so fatigued. He performed strep and flu tests. Both were negative, but we assumed it was the flu based on the facts that flu test is rarely positive the first 24 hours and we had definitely been exposed to the flu.

We gave her the Tamiflu that was prescribed and she puked. I wasn't surprised because I came straight home and read up about it and found it makes many kids puke, but that it does lessen flu symptoms by a day, and she only threw up a tiny bit. The next day, more 104 fevers and she puked in the doctors office (green puke all over my shirt). Dr. Edwards asked if her urine smelled, and I told him no. He said if I was nervous he'd put her in the hospital, but if I thought I could keep her hydrated he had no problem with her staying home, since she seemed well hydrated there in the office. I preferred to keep her home.

So we continued with 104.5 degree fevers. Every six hours she'd have Motrin and that would reduce the fever down to 100 or so, but the alternating rounds of Tylenol wouldn't budge the fever.

Then Friday around 10, her fever totally broke, and we played outside and ate lunch. She napped, but not long, so I rocked her a bit. While we rocked she started shivering, and I could feel her fever was back. Her forehead temp was 102, but then she spit out her paci and I saw BLUE BLUE BLUE lips.

Can I somehow make this more dramatic?? SHE HAD BLUE LIPS.

And they were cold as ice to the touch, even though her forehead was feverish.

I completely freaked. Called a friend for advice but then decided that I just needed to take her to the ER. I turned up the heat in the car and my blue-lipped, shivering child just kept telling me it was "hot."

We went to regional first care and they took us straight back. They took her temp (104.6) and gave her oxygen. Immediately her lips were red again. We were told later that she was not getting enough oxygen because the fever makes her breathing more labored. We guessed that's why she was blue. But today, I found this explanation online: "I have seen children with no underlying medical problems experience high temperatures and skin color changes. When a young child’s fever is high their abdomen and back can feel very hot to touch while their arms and legs feel cool. In some of these children the hands and feet may also appear to be bluish in color."

Then they took us in an ambulance from Regional First Care to St. Mary's. Not because she was in that much danger, but because they didn't trust me to drive. Which I don't get because I promise I totally kept it together (pat on back). The only time my lips quivered was when I told the receptionist we need to be seen immediately because "m-m-my c-c-child is b-b-blue."

The ER experience was horrible for Leslie but ok for me. I really felt like they covered all their bases and I was comfortable with that. It was clear from the beginning they suspected a urinary tract infection, and Dr. Edwards' questions about the smell of her urine kept coming back to me. I was sure now that it was a UTI.

But they performed flu and strep tests, as well as xrayed her chest, and of course took a urine sample, which they had to do with a cath.

Have I mentioned Leslie was traumatized? I mean, some of you are relatives who live quite far away, so let me say that Leslie measures strangers from a distance. She does not trust them and does NOT want them in her personal space. I'm afraid I cannot describe her as friendly! But it was bad enough that all the strangers in the ER were in her personal space, but they stuck her no less than three times, swabbed her throat and nose, inserted and removed a catheter, and put six monitor things on that pulled the crap out of her skin if she moved too quickly.

But it was all over quickly and she was soon feverless and playing. Daddy went for food and she asked for "Da" the whole time he was gone. She got a full round of IV antibiotics, but the ER doc thought that would not be enough and we had to stay overnight. We left Saturday after another strong dose of antibiotics.

We'll see what Dr. Edwards has to say about all this. I had kidney reflux as a child, as did Tricia. The condition is hereditary and it's quite likely Leslie has it. However, Susan cautioned us not to be too quick to perform the awfully painful test for the condition (I can remember it from my childhood it was so bad). I can see how it might make sense to wait and see if she at least has one more UTI. After all, next time she has a fever I'll immediately ask the doctor to check for UTI, so we should (praying) not have a situation this serious again. But we'll see what the doctor recommends.

Our Quick Update

Things are moving so quickly I need to jot down a few bullets.

• Leslie is saying "ball," "all done" (in a sing-song voice),"High Five" (she gets that from Ms. Erin), "Bray," and "feet." She points to the picture above her changing table when she says "feet."
• She loves to play the game where she kisses mommy, then daddy, mommy, then daddy!
• She likes kissing HERSELF in the mirror!
• When we say it's time to put on her pajamas, she walks to her room and sits down, patiently waiting for us to change her.
• When leaving for school, she throws her paci and Sprinkles in her school bag and walks out the door.
• She makes a lion sound and cow sound.
• She loves dancing to the Wonder Pets song!
• Oh -- and she looooooooves apples :)

Happy Fall!

Our Happy Game Day!

Our Happy Birthday to Kate! (and our first gymnastics class)

First, Happy Fourth Birthday to my sweet niece, Kate. I love you!!

I took Leslie to School Street Gym for the first time today. It's hard to relate this sort of thing in writing, but let me just say we had a blast. She was dancing in the lobby before we ever got into the gym. For her first day, I think she did a very good job of using the equipment and being a nice student :)

Our Church Dress!

Our Kate's Fourth Birthday Party

Our 15-Month Stats (well, almost 16 months!)

Dr. Edwards delayed our 15-month visit because he didn't want to expose Leslie to all the flu and strep-throat germs that were crowding his office this month.

Height: 32in. (80th)
Weight: 25.9 (80th)
Head: 48.5 (off the charts, apparently!)

Some cute things worth mentioning:

• She continues mimicking tons of things: putting her toothbrush under the faucet, putting on my bras (ha!), putting items where they belong when I'm cleaning.
• She has started saying "byyyyyeee" instead of bye-bye, and it's really darn cute.
• She has learned the names of rooms in the house, and will go to those rooms if I ask her to.
• Calls the sunshine "hot" even if it isn't!
• Calls Baxter "Ba-Ba"
• Can un-velcro her shoes to take them off.
• When the phone rings, she picks it up, holds it to her ear, and "talks."
• When we're leaving daycare, we walk out the door and she says "carrrrr" when we approach the van.